QUOTE(Atlantis @ Jul 20 2004, 12:48 PM)
Uhm... have you tried the latest version of oggmux?
Your version seems pretty old, the latest is 0.9.5.1.
You can also try reinstalling OggDS (0.9.9.5).
I use virtualdubmod to create ogm files, it never gave problems and works correctly with aotuvb2, megamix I and II.

Actually, that is fine. I would recommend 0.9.5.1 over 0.9.9.5. The ones with a newer version number actually were from an older branch of OggDs. These newer ones don't seem to work as well anyway. What I would recommend you do for playback is to use
MPC because it has a built in OGG splitter and then use
CoreVorbis to playback the vorbis audio. That way you can use CoreVorbis to play vorbis audio from other containers too without problems from OGGDs. IIRC there was some problems with other containers ie matroska accepting the audio fast enough to decode from the directshow parser, this is one of the major things CoreVorbis fixes. Although if you are just using OGM you don't have to bother.
I used to use vdubmod to create my OGM files ~ 2 years ago since then I haven't really used OGM much. However, if you are sick of directshow/vfw muxing then you might want to try out this
http://cyrius.bunkus.org/ogmtools.html these tools are based on Mosu's ogmtools and are usually highly recommended by people that use OGM as their container of choice.
Honestly though, your problems with the explorer taking up soo much memory sound more like directshow problems. Sounds to me like it wants to preview the first frame in the avi to display in explorer. Others have had the same problem
http://forum.doom9.org/showthread.php?s=&threadid=57637 and the fix
http://forum.doom9.org/showthread.php?s=&threadid=18050 the fix is for AVI but it doesn't matter IIRC because shmedia.dll "gets file attributes, or even views thumbnails" in general I think.
EDIT: The problem is with the ogg file and not the OGM though isn't it? Oh well, I think the fix should still be the same.