I think all the tools you need are listed on
this thread on cdfreaks.
If Windows won't even recognise the drive you may need to reflash using the DOS based MtkFlash. Ensure you check that you can use it with your drive (the FAQ says it works with most Lite-Ons). There is an explanation on
the MtkFlash page of how to check you can use it with your drive.
It looks like you'll then need the XFlash Utility to extract the firmware in BIN format from an EXE Flasher to use with MtkFlash.
You'll have to boot from your Windows disc(s) to get into DOS to use MtkFlash - you can't use it from a Windows command prompt.
All apps mentioned are listed on the first page I reference.
NB: I've never used any of those tools! I have used the EEPROM utility and Omnipatcher.
Good luck.
Edit: I may have gone off on a tangent there. On re-reading, it seems Windows
can see your drive, but the
flasher is complaining. MtkFlash may still be an answer to that. However an easier answer may be to download
the latest official firmware, and use Flash Fix so that you can flash any firmware over any firmware.
Edit 2: Me again. I tested, and Flash Fix wouldn't recognise the firmware, nor would LiteFirm...
So, I found
this which has
the stock KH0R firmware listed which, if any of the newer firmwares are to go on, should have been fixed so that you can flash forward or back anyway. I currently have a codeguys firmware on my SOHW-832S, which I put through Omnipatcher to allow bitsetting by default.
Can't you just use
LtnRPC to remove the region settings?