Edit - Sorry, this has turned out to be more of a reminder for me than help for you, but there are a couple of things here you might find useful, so I'll post it anyway.
Rip: I use
EAC, set up
thus, with
Dmitry's Lame compile and
ForceASPI, but I started with
CD-DA X-Tractor because it's simple and
fast. I didn't like CDex.
Burn: I use XP's built in burning - I don't burn audio CDs. I used to use Easy CD Creator until it succumbed to Windows bit-rot. When I next need a full-featured burner I intend to try EAC's built in burning, and also
BurnAtOnce, particularly for its long filename support - truncated filename errors used to drive me insane when I did a lot of burning. Given the other comments in this thread I'm going to have to have a look at Burrrn too.
Play: I generally use my iRiver H320 DAP because I don't want fan noise when I'm listening to music, but if I have to play something on my laptop then I use
Media Player Classic. It plays audio and video files other players choke on,
but has an infuriating longstanding bug* where the automatic level control gradually lowers the output volume over the length of an album / movie - easily undone by a pause & play or simply clicking on the position slider, but for me it relegates it to checking out a track or two and nothing more. Next player I'll try will be
UltraPlayer for its supposed bit-perfect playback and general all-round goodness. I keep wishing Foobar2000 appealed to me, but I tried it once and still have anti-bodies to it.
Windows Media Player can actually be pretty good - I like its tag editing. I just don't use it because it feels bloated (lots of features I have no interest in whatsoever), can be slow to respond, and mainly because it gets VBR MP3 times so completely, utterly and consistently wrong. And because in its default install it is configured to rip to WMA instead of MP3, which is just rude.
And because I'm paranoid it's going to DRM me one night when I'm not looking...
Codecs: Audio generally comes in far fewer varieties than video, but I keep roughly up-to-date with
K-Lite Codec Pack Full, along with Real and QuickTime alternative from the same site.
Manage: I mostly use the rather good
MP3-Library, but with regular jaunts into
MP3 Tag Studio for major tagging and renaming, although the latter cannot be described as simple. A half-hearted directory structure is a good idea too (as opposed to
completely random).
I haven't had enough experience with iTunes to pass comment on it, but in general Apple software is brilliant
if you think like Apple, which a lot of people obviously do. If you don't think like Apple then it's a forgone conclusion that you'll be launching your whole computer from an upstairs window within hours of installation.
*2nd, much later, Edit: To be fair, I wasn't keeping up - it seems that after a long period of virtualy no releases, development is back under way and this bug appears fixed in v6.4.8.7