QUOTE(miranda @ Nov 21 2005, 10:05 PM)
1) What is best Stereo or join-stereo (I want to use with 5.1 surround kit)
Don't mess around with the stereo settings. LAME will determine the optimal stereo mode for each frame, forcing it to use one or the other will result in inefficient bit rate allocation.
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2) Which lame version to use?
I believe this is covered extensively in the stickies, but generally 3.96.1 is the preferred stable version, 3.97b also being used by some people (newer, but less tested).
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3) which preset is beter:
-b 320 -m s -q0 -p
-V0 -m s --vbr-new -q0 --lowpass 20,5
Don't use huge strings of custom presets, the defaults are extensively tuned and are very rarely if ever worse quality than the custom strings. Even if an option will theoretically result in less loss, if can actually decrease overall quality by causing too much of the overall bit rate to be allocated to it.
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4) Do you recommend other presets?
-b 320. The only other option I'd use is perhaps --vbr-new.
Edit: You could use FF as guruboolez suggested, keep in mind that foobar2000 will not support it, Winamp's out-of-the-box decoder won't support it (I think anyway, I haven't used it in a long time), and most other media players won't support it. In my opinion the quality gain using FF is very limited, and not worth the compatbility issues. At 640kbps you're approaching lossless bit rates and you've lost the main benefit of MP3 (compatibility).