I use dbPowerAmp's UI to Nero's aacplusenc.exe because it's pretty simple to deal with, but it doesn't allow for the 2pass switch as far as I can see. I've also used EAC but don't like doing that because I have to change everything when I rip to FLAC or anything else, for that matter. I've fooled around with neroaacenc.exe in a command window, but that seems the most awkward way of all.
I've looked at the 2pass discussions on Hydrogen Audio, but they seem to rapidly go off on a tangent. Maybe there's a post that's really clear, but I've missed it.
Thanks!