Im looking for a site where they can show me some general tagging rules like when to use "and the" & the" a "/" or " / "... stuff like that. anyone know where i can find a tagging guide?

General tagging rules I used a combination of ID3 documentation, the documentation in mp3tag and those of Foobar.
Google will find those easily.

In my opinion, those that you ask about will not be found within general rules as they are very specific use cases and will more than likely be decided upon the implementation methods the software you personally use for tagging and / library management and playback. This is not just the case with audio files....these little use cases are troublesome in most any case where you try for some sort of automation.

Unfortunately there is no one perfect standard.

terry

thanks