Somewhere I saw a list of "recommended" EQ/compressor settings for various instruments. But I couldn't find it just now...

(I think it was mostly for "real" instruments.)
Even though engineers and producers might have some default starting-point settings, in the end,
it's all done by ear.If the drum track is the first track you're working on, I wouldn't worry about getting it "perfect" just yet. You want a good sound... you don't want to start-off with a bad sound... but you will probably need to tweak the EQ and compression "in context" with the other tracks... A track that sounds perfect solo may not sound perfect in the mix.
You need good monitors in a good room. If you have (or can get your hands on) a Real Time Analyzer to adjust the EQ of your monitors/room, that would be a bonus. Since you're focusing on bass, you probably need a good subwoofer, matched & calibrated to your monitors... A good "smooth" sub, not a "boomy" sub.
Most producers/engineers keep a "reference CD" handy. Its' just a good sounding CD that they are familiar with that has music similar to what they are working on. The main purpose of the reference CD is to "calibrate your ears". After listening for awhile, you become accustom to whatever you're listening to and it's easy to misadjust something or over-do an effect. Comparing with your reference once in a while helps to re-calibrate your ears and keep things sounding "reasonable".
Another thing most producers/engineers do is listen on several different systems. When everything sounds good in the studio, they will make a CD and/or MP3 and listen in their car, on their home system, on a boom box, an iPod, etc. Again, they will compare to their reference music.
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im an up and coming producer out of west texas and i do alot of r&b/southern hip hop. im developing my own sound so i was wondering what yall think about this scenario...
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Recording Magazine. It's mainly for musicians & producers with "home studios". They have articles about recording live vocals & instruments, and about producing with MIDI & loops.
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